The power of speech - or what to do if you are attacked...

Attacks rarely short waiting. But it always happens. And it's better to know how to behave, in advance, than to rush and find a way out of this situation in a hurry.

First things first, do not try to hit back. The escalation of tension will not allow anything but joy for watching svara. Basil accused Pete that he was homosexual and sleeps with his grandmother and grandfather, and sometimes. What should Peter feel? . But on the other side of Peter knows that he only has sex with cute blonde sisters from next door, and Bob just jealous of him. So the attack is aimed at Vasey change in public opinion about Pete. For the purpose of, for example, that Pete will not give other blondes. Another goal - Bob is a champion of truth in the yard. And all the local gossip - grandmother would put it in the example of young people, which will undoubtedly raise Vasya in his own eyes.

Of course, Peter could respond immediately. Now imagine that Peter declares that it is Bob - a latent homosexual and judge others by yourself. This will be. an active attack. Bob in response to something too small to answer, and unleash the Cold War to the delight of local public.

On the other hand Peter declare that he is not homosexual and do not sleep with relatives. That, of course, publicly affirm their grandparents and nervously giggling blonde neighbor -. This will be. active defense. And Peter will look like a goof apologetic. And, then there is something fishy.

Therefore, the right thing will not answer anything. In this case, there are two other outcomes: Bob will continue to bleed word pus and begins to look silly. Second - in the morning no one supported by a rumor he would die.

Here comes the time for retaliation. T. e. we wait until our opponent admit its first blunder. Or at least calm down the emotions. Remember the game of staring - we must look at each other until the first eye will take no. Here, something like that. We must look at the enemy while he would not allow his first mistake. And then use it.

For example, Bob mentioned that he is absolutely accurate information about Petit pederastichnosti. Why at this moment does not ask the listening audience, and not in a gay club there should be a regular hang out, to get such information. Oh! . e. reveal his source, trying to prove that he is not gay. All charges will be immediately Vasey ridiculous against the background of his active attempts to justify.

so. the principle of first - use a slit in the film world's enemy, and not in his defense. After all, what prevented us from Vasya called Satanist old women and cause consternation assumption that at night, Bob cuts the cat in the upside down cross. It certainly hit Vasi authority, but does not remove the charges Petit. And will wrap around both of them, swallowing each other's feces. If you strike at the enemy's position with respect to you, then the charge is ridiculous.

The last example of a wrong answer on the basis of. ' flow around the two '. - Maynasa quarrel with Spomoni. A correct example - the protection of the Russian Foreign Ministry for its actions in Georgia. U.S. has made a precedent on all fronts: Iraq, Kosovo, so that now would be to go to the tanks to Tbilisi, and then pass control to the country of opposition.

The third stage, when the defense broken, the offensive. Bob is exposed as a liar and a moron. First, he started this fight. Usually, no one remembers, for which they fought, but who first punched a turnip - remembers. Second, Bob has suddenly become a latent gay. I do not care that if it was really Bob, that means he got the correct information, accurately and Peter Gay. The public does not go into details! . Now you can kill and Vasya.

Enough to have a ridiculous assumption, and Bob will be destroyed. For example, Bob sets fire to the newspaper in the boxes, it passes to his home. Or Bob is going to Kompashki on the roof and shaking tv old ladies. Not the essence of what will be said,. important to give the opportunity to combine Vasya and Big Trouble. Water does not flow - Bob is guilty. It's cold in the apartment - again, Bob. For all the artificiality of these assumptions are remarkably tenacious and easily fit on the perception of the reality of ordinary man in the street.

Here and must stop. Bob is busy, and deposed that justifies and is justified in all directions. Spend more time at Vasya not. Even a little bit and decide that you have a mutual interest. And this we do not need.

I had an entertaining time in school. Learning in the classroom, where 20 girls 4 guys - unbelievably hard to. Because the girls are constantly trying to prove that they have the leadership qualities. It just so happened that for some reason one of the girls, and troechnitsa maloprimechatelnaya lady tried to humiliate me a ridiculous phrase, concerning my male pride. I do not remember exactly how I answered, it is difficult to expect the adequacy of 15 -year-old, but I compared it to a whore. In general, I gave each of pristutstvuyuschih to compare it with a girl of easy virtue at least in my head. Since the images (due to her usual behavior) were close, blow was accurately. It immediately turned into a shot attempt to put a white and fluffy. Justice has been restored.

We summarize:.
1) Give yourself a chance to regroup after a stroke.
2) Wait for the first puncture and strike the half-open gap.
3) Apply a crushing blow.

Or put another language:.
1) Provide an opportunity to cool down the emotions of others.
2) To sow doubts about the presentation of information the enemy.
3) Apply to this background, its impact. And, most likely, it is something to reach goals.

Stay healthy and do not let yourself be insulted.